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Alright, ladies, let's find out the #1 sign that you're getting played. So it's this: you're getting emotional. When you're getting emotional and you can't think rationally. You know when somebody's gaslighting you and you don't know whether you're right or wrong.
Why? It's because to manipulate someone, you got to learn to appeal to their emotions. It's the only way to quickly and efficiently manipulate people. The way to do that is appealing to their emotions but inflicting pain and pleasure. This is the roller coaster of emotions that humans tend to be addicted to. It's almost like, you know, wen arguing with somebody and you tend to say to yourself that you're not an argument people but in the heat of the battle and the person who you want to prove wrong doesn't want to talk to you, there's like a part of you that says "let me just prove you wrong" and you just want to be more aggressive, right?
And so that's what I'm talking about, wherein they make you emotional and they give you pain and pleasure and that gets too addictive to them. Pain and pleasure are what get you addicted to things. It's what makes you crave the pleasure more, through the pain and it also helps you endure the pain because you know that the pleasure is coming. It makes the pleasure seem more pleasurable simply because of the contrast that you experience because of the pain.
What they do is appeal to people's emotions and find those connections in the past and break them. They find the joints that keep you together and the joints that keep you who you are and break them. And so what they do is that before they demand anything from you, they first weaken you by creating internal division and by making you doubt yourself whether you're right or wrong. Don't choose emotional satisfaction over rational thought. It's almost like an addiction.
If you're doubting whether or not he likes you, if you're doubting whether or not he's gonna be there, if you have any doubt then what you got to do is pull away. Get away from the situation and get different people's perspective because what manipulator's don't want is other people's perspective. They don't want other people's point of view.
Do not let people separate you from your family and friends because then, by creating an enemy, it makes you feel like you don't have anyone else to go to. Another thing is that if you feel like a guy makes you feel like your family members and friends look like the bad people then most likely, he's trying to manipulate you and most likely, you're dealing with a narcissist. Anytime you're feeling that doubt, just pull away.
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